Let's Learn About Meeting Russian & Dating Russian Women
Thinking of dating or meeting a Russian woman? Avoid these 10 deadly mistakes
Meeting a Russian girl. Mistake #1: No flowers on the first date.
Dating in Russia is slightly different to most other countries when it comes to flowers! When dating a Russian women it is expected of you to nearly always arrive with flowers!
- If you arrive with flowers to your date you will always be considered a gentleman.
- If fail to arrive at your first date with no flowers the Russian women will immediately consider you rude and disreputable.
- The perfect man always arrives with flowers.
- Flowers are usually a good way to get yourself out of any small problems, bring her some flowers and the problem usually goes away.
Not arriving on your first date with flowers really can spell trouble.
Fix: Just buy your Russian women some flowers! It doesn't matter what you have to put off to pop in to the florist , just do it! it is as simple as that!
Meeting a Russian women. Mistake #2: Not opening a door or pulling out a chair.
We all know the perfect gentleman opens the door, pulls out chairs, holds the coat for her to slip in, carries the bags, and in general treats her like she is a movie star.
Russian women love to hold they partners arm when on a cosy walk, so you should always offer your Russian women your arm, especially when she is in those high heels.
Fix: When meeting a Russian women always treat her as a fragile old lady and you are her knight in shinning armor. Doing so will earn you so many brownie points.
Dating a Russian women. Mistake #3: Arriving for the date like you just fell out of bed.
On your first date with your Russian women? can you imagine the effort she will be putting in to making her self look beautiful for you? Do you know how long it usually takes for a Russian women to get ready and do her make up? There is no need to guess her reaction if you turn up for your first date in shorts and a t-shirt of some scruffy pair of trousers with an un ironed shirt? yes you got it, she is NOT going to be impressed .
Always make sure you are dressed up, the shirt and trousers and a smart pair of shoes.. failed to do so could put an early end to your Russian women dating.
Fix: Go pick yourself up the latest copy of Esquire and check out what the modern man is wearing today to a date, when you are dating a Russian women always arrive in clean ironed clothes preferably trousers , shirt and polished shoes.
Dating a Russian girl. Mistake #4: Dirty hands and uncleaned teeth.
So you'r planning to meet a beautiful Russian women who has spent hours making herself look beautiful for you, you can be sure she will be immaculately dressed and of course will be expecting the same with you. But guess what she will also be thinking? At some point she maybe kissing you and you may have your hands over her, one of the first things she will notice are your hands and teeth, yes it really is important to arrive with clean hands and teeth or you could find yourself in a no go situation from the first minute.
What ever your job and how ever dirty your hands may become always keep them clean.
Fix: look after your hands and teeth at all times, how long does it take to give your hands and teeth a good scrub?
Meeting a Russian women. Mistake #5: Bad hygiene.
So this is not a problem associated with only Russian women, but strangely enough so many guys fail to fix the issue! too many guys are happy to not have a shower and just take a few shortcuts, spraying deodorant over a already bad body smell is not going to fix the problem? How many guys have felt a little hot and sweaty on a first date? Yes it often happens making any poor hygiene problems 10 times worse.
Fix: Always spend time having a GOOD shower and scrub before going on any date with a Russian women, do NOT take shortcuts at any cost! Find some nice perfume and stay away from those cheap perfumes that wear off after the first hour.
Meeting a Russian girl. Mistake #6: Not picking the tab.
When it comes to dating in Russia Russian men are still very traditional and still consider it a mans duty to pay the bill after a night out at a restaurant. As you can guess Russian women are not expecting any different when meeting a foreign guy and why should they?
If you are serious about dating a Russian women then you need to come to the idea of paying all the bills whilst dating, if your expecting your Russian girl to pay half then you really are in the wrong place and clearly Russian dating is not going to be for you.
Fix: it is so easy! just pay the bills.
Meeting a Russian lady. Mistake #7: Getting to intimate on the first few dates.
One of the biggest rules of dating a Russian women is strictly no getting affectionate until after a few dates , if you expect her to become affectionate with you on the first date then it only means one thing to her and that is you are defiantly not marriage material.
If you are seeking a long term relationship it is important to take it steady and wait until at least 3/4 dates before you even think about getting too close to her. Of course if you are just after a one night stand then continue to proceed with your early affection and see where it gets you.
There is one kiss that is allowed on the first date and that is on your Russian women hand, kissing your Russian dates hand either on meeting or finishing you evening out.
Generally the rule when meeting Russian women is kissing and getting affectionate comes after several dates and usually when you are a couple.
Fix: Always approach the subject of affection with caution do not rush to try to kiss her, you could whisper some thing sweet in her ear to test her reaction , if she moves away it is a sure sign she is not ready for your affection, if she moves close then your luck may be about to change very soon.
Meeting a Russian lady. Mistake #8: Drinking and smoking when she does not.
As with many things in life first impressions always count and never more so than when dating a Russian women. If your Russian date does not drink or smoke then be sure to set an example and do not smoke or drink either a small amount of alcohol maybe ok but keep a clear head. Russian women would off had a lot of experience with drunk men , having a few drinks and becoming even slightly drunk will ensure you never see this women again.
Even if your date is drinking moderately or several glasses of champaign always keep a clear head especially on the first date. Of course if you land up being boy friend and girl friend there is no problem with having a few drinks and being merry on a night out with your Russian women.
Fix: Limit your drinking or alcohol intake to one or two drinks on your first date. If you smoke and she does not, do not even think about lighting up.
Meeting a Russian women. Mistake #9: Failing to get her home safe and at a reasonable time.
Remember what we were saying about always acting like a gentleman with your Russian women? As a gentleman, you are supposed to make sure she has arrived home safely often this may involve walking her to her door then finding your own way home. Some times it is ok to organize a taxi for her from a restaurant if you have been out on a date, but if you want to really impress her with your gentlemanly manners always try to take her direct to her front door yourself.
Fix: Just get her home safely at all costs. She wants to know that you are a man who is concerned for her protection.
Dating a Russian women. Mistake. #10: Not planning a second date during the first date.
When a Russian women you meet on a date is genuinely interested in you she will usually be waiting all night for you to suggest another date, if you have any inclination your Russian women is interested be sure to suggest another meeting. Be absolutely sure to get her number at the same time.
Whilst on your first date try to find your Russian women interests, maybe if she is an avid movie goer suggest a night out watching a movies at the local cinema.
Fix: Plan Always think in front if you think you have a good match even before your first meeting be sure to have some suggestions to meet up again! And TAKE her number.